Setbacks are important!

Failures ,setbacks, tragedies are all negative words.
But any one who has not met any of them has not met LIFE.They are as important in life as success in life.
The kind of person you are all depends on and how the adversities and circumstances you have faced in life.
Tragedies and setbacks make you humble and gentle . You then realize the importance of what you have lost and the importance of things what you have achieved ,the importance of being privileged to get certain things by birth which others have not.
The pains of failure are always more than the happiness of the one who succeeded. You can never value success if you have never failed.
They are important to shape the real person in you.
Life is a never ending process for learning .You learn from your mistakes, you learn from mistakes of others but problem occurs when you stop learning .
There is nothing bad in failing but anything which is bad is never trying again .

Between the Daily Chores!

After a common day of daily chores, I finally managed some time to do laundry .I rushed towards the laundry shop as time for closing was approaching.
I put all my clothes in machine and I sat to wait till all my clothes were washed.
It was Independence day in Belgium and everything was closed.There were not many people in laundry except a young lady with her 3 kids.

The lady was busy in drying her clothes, her son must be 7 and her daughter 4,her youngest child was a girl who seemed to be an year old was sitting in the pram enjoying the game of her elder siblings and so was I.
The two kids were running to and fro,dancing ,jumping on the chairs ,rolling on the floor and laughing.
Thier game was not new and their gestures were not novice ,their innocence was like all other kids but their smiles and laughter were as fresh as morning breeze.
I wondered if I was like them being a child .Was I so free of tension and worries?Do i used to play the same games?Were my smiles so original as if coming directly from the heart?Was my laughter so flawless like music?
I wished if I could still play the same game and smile without worries.
As we grow old we stop remembering the child in us.
The busy life style of today has taken everything from us.we are paying the price of our own complexities that we once created to make life simpler.
We all need to make solutions simpler rather than complex.
We should stop worrying for the things we have no control over and better think of solutions rather than problems.
The rat race for big house ,big jobs ,more money will never end so why WORRY.
We should enjoy and live each moment of our lives as if there is no tomorrow,the saddest is not the poorest but the one who never realizes the importance of his own worth.
So let the energy flow out of you,Smile to everybody you meet ,laugh out to Life and let the child in you LIVE.....

Some Reason has to be

Some Reason has to be
For the world to be round
So is Life, never straight,
Always comes and goes around.
We call it circle of life,
Viewing it from close vicinity.
So why do we keep trying putting things straight
When we all know there is no end
We all will be, where we started in this circle
Then why do we say MOVE ON,
When we actually are not moving,
Or may be we are just moving to come back,
From where we all started.
And if everybody is coming to where they start,
Then why can’t we be there
Where we all are and just LIVE!

My first POST

It’s been a long time now that I have written anything. It feels like I am writing for the first time.When I was in school and college I liked to pen down my thoughts.The idea stroke back and I thought again:to do justice to my thoughts: to capture them again.The best thing for me was to read my old collection of poems and articles. Each time I get a feeling that they are no less than an old picture or an album reminding you of your feelings and thoughts both beautiful and ugly of those precious or mundane moments.